How to Get a Girl's Attention and Keep It

How to Get a Girl's Attention and Keep It | 

what's up everyone my name is Alex Costa

and if you're looking to get a girl's
attention then you came to the right
place the problem with most guys is that
when they try to get a girl's attention
they make it very obvious that they're
trying to get her attention all right
it's not smooth and it is not cool
instead you need to be finding things
that girls will be genuinely interested
in or curious about and implement those
things in your daily life style and
routine so that's what we're going over
today all right today you're gonna learn
the best ways to get a girl's attention
without looking like a Tryon and the
first thing that you need is good energy
and I don't mean that in this weird
cliche boring way I'm just saying you
need to be positive no girl is gonna be
attracted to a dude that's bringing her
down all right have me a positive
mindset a positive energy is so
important because it sets the mood you
don't want negative people around you
killing the vibe girls love having a
good time laughing having fun and I mean
who doesn't right try to make things fun
more interesting because we all know
that being a downer and being boring is
gonna hurt your chance this is what you
should do show her that number one you
can make her laugh all right that you
bring a positive mindset
everywhere you go smile as much as
possible and she's gonna smile back
trust me and number two when it's time
to be serious and time to talk about
deep important things then you need to
be ready to do that - all right know how
to balance those two between being funny
and laughing and being you know serious
and talking about deep things because
that's gonna make you a magnet to girls
and not only girls I'm talking girls
friends and people in general
next on today's list of course it's
gonna be the way that you look you have
to be visually interesting whether it's
your outfit your hairstyle or your
physique and you guys watching right now
you know better than anyone I think the
feeling when you get a nice fresh
haircut for example the feeling you get
when you look your absolute best that
wave of confidence comes over you you
know you feel like you're on cloud nine
when it comes to fashion and style you
need to wear something that looks good
and that has some attention-grabbing
details but you need to be very careful
not to overdo it so if you're wearing a
jeans and t-shirt for example super
basic outfit don't be afraid if they
don't want some rings a necklace a hat
sunglasses basically accessories that
will make
a simple outfit popped and guys don't
slack on your physique there is nothing
that will make you look better
absolutely nothing that will make you
look better feel better than being in
shape you know that being able to take
your shirt off at the beach we all know
that girls love that but also if you do
it right it's good for your health it's
good for your energy levels and so much
more so get active now number three is
something that I learned when I was a
little bit too old but I learned it yeah
here in LA don't go out with only guys
going out with the boys is awesome you
know every dude needs it sometimes the
boys add up but going out every single
night with the same six dudes is not
your best move girls like to talk to
other girls right it's a lot easier for
them so girls attract more girls chances
are if you're always surrounded by a
bunch of dudes and you look like you're
on the hunt and no girl wants to be a
part of that so when you have girls and
your group of friends it just makes it
so much easier for other girls to
approach your group or you can even use
those girls around you as wing women it
makes you look like a cool dude it makes
you look way less creepy and he makes
you look more approachable you follow
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list you have to be present you have to
be there you have to pay attention you
can't just be like in your own head but
you also can't be the loudest guy in the
room a lot of guys are scared of being
noticed and they think that by being
unnoticed by being invisible by hiding
in the corner their night is somehow
gonna magically go away well let me tell
you that's not gonna happen if they
don't see you because you're standing in
the corner and nobody can see you your
night is not gonna go well because she
won't even see so if your friends are
hanging out if they're all talking if
there's other people in the group then
you need to be there you need to
participate in the conversation you need
to be present you need to pay attention
to what's going on so you can be part of
the whole conversation and part of the
group and when you're talking to a girl
you have to make sure that there's never
any dead air that air will kill any
conversation any dates any chances that
you have with her so if you guys aren't
talking for two three four or five
seconds and it's time for you to ask a
question ask her anything about her
family favorite sport about the weather
it doesn't matter just make sure that
you keep talking to keep the
conversation going because you never
know what the conversation is gonna go
into every time you ask you a question
and it's another chance for you guys to
connect on a deeper level and that's
what you should be doing next up guys
you have to wear their white cologne you
know that I'm a huge fan of colognes and
you would be crazy to leave your house
and go somewhere where you might meet a
girl without wearing a really nice
cologne doesn't have to be anything
expensive doesn't have to be anything
fancy but something that smells nice
something that is pleasant something
that is not too overpowering I see so
many guys or I smell guys like ad bars
because they spray themselves a hundred
times before they get there it's like -
you gotta tone it down a little bit
because I am drowning in your Cologne
and that is not good nobody likes that
so you want to smell good but you also
don't want to go overboard I usually do
four to six sprays and that's it all
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need what you're trying to achieve here
is when you get closer to a girl and
closer she'll be able to smell you now
you're not trying to project your scent
throughout the whole neighbor
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Kosta thank you guys so much for
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very soon these